On the Today Show this morning, it was reported that a teenager was severely burned after attempting a stunt he saw on YouTube. The Today Show's response to this news? A reminder of ways to block kids' access to sites like YouTube. Really? Is blocking sites the best thing to do? In this particular case, I think that the best solution is to smack the kid upside the head.
Too often, I hear parents and newscasters blame the technology and discuss ways of keeping our kids away from it rather than blaming parents (and the kids themselves) and discussing ways of better educating ourselves and our children. In this particular case, would it not have been better to remind parents that we need to talk to our children about what they might see on TV, in movies, or online and that they need to be smart about how they respond to it? The same thing happened years ago when some teenagers decided to lie in the middle of the road after watching some movie.
Not-so-smart things like this are common in adolescence. They stem, in part, from a phenomenon known as the "personal fable." Teens sincerely believe that there has never been anyone on Earth quite like them, therefore the usual rules of physics, consequence, etc., simply don't apply. Additionally, the pre-frontal cortex of the brain, which is in charge of planning and predicting, is not fully developed in teens so they generally do not think actions through all the way to their conclusions.
This means that parents and teachers need to provide scaffolding - structure and support - to help kids think things through. They need to remember to occasionally remind their kids not to copy the things they see online. They should ask kids what they're up to. They should ask things like, "What do you think will happen if you do that?" The answer is not blocking content (teens did stupid things long before the advent of mass media), but good parenting and teaching.
Blocking sites like YouTube means that they will not get to see "good" videos such as tutorials that could help them with their math homework, digital stories about the Gettysburg Address, or podcasts from their teachers.
The answer here, IMO, is not blocking content (teens did stupid things long before the advent of mass media), but good parenting and teaching.
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